Are you ready to find love? But, you just need a little help. I hope you’ll join me this Valentine’s Day to discover how to use my Top 10 Tips to Help You Find Love!
Dating Tip #1. Let yourself heal from your last relationship
Action: Letting yourself grieve will actually help you move past your last relationship so you can move forward with your life.
Dating Tip #2. Smile*
Action: When you realize that a good guy needs a “welcome” invitation from you, it’s easier to overcome your shyness and smile! (Guys, when you can read her signals, you’ll have more success when you do approach her.)
Dating Tip #3. Find Your Village
Action: Start hanging out in places where other people share your values: church, the dog park, a political campaign. Then when you meet someone interesting, you’ve already got the foundation for a real relationship.
Dating Tip #4. Run away from your “type
Action: You can re-train your radar to search out the good men (or women)!
Dating Tip #5. The only goal of a first date is – “Do I want a second date?”*
Action: Share what you like to do for fun. And ask what they like to do for fun. Keep it light. And pay attention to how they treat you!
Dating Tip #6. Trust your gut
Action: The more you listen to your gut, the louder it will get, and the more you can trust it!
Dating Tip #7. Remember, this is him (or her) on their best behavior*
Action: Keep your eyes open for red flags. And remember, 3 yellow flags = 1 red flag.
Dating Tip #8. Date, don’t mate!
Action: Slow down. This means dating AND keeping your clothes on!
Dating Tip #9. Remember, it takes about 3-6 months for infatuation to wear off
Action: Enjoy the fun and excitement of infatuation. Just remember, no matter how much fun you’re having, it takes time to really know someone.
Dating Tip #10. Is he (or she) the whole package?
Action: If you take your time and really get to know him (or her), you can find someone you’re attracted to, who’s fun and shares your values, that you can build a life with!
(*I’ve incorporated some of Andy Whaling, MFT’s dating tips)
I can’t wait to see you on Valentine’s Day!
Are You Ready for Love?
Live Video Chat*
Tuesday, February 14th, 7 p.m. (Pacific Time)
Cost: $1 (Special Valentine’s Rate)
*If you’ve never been on a live video chat, it’s easy and a lot of fun! Just login in from your computer or call from your phone!
Dr. Vonda ("Vondie") Lozano is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, former Psychology Professor, and Author. She lives in the Los Angeles area with her husband. And she loves helping other women find love with her counseling, seminars, and ebooks. Get your *free* copy of Dr. Vondie's most recent ebook, Date, Don't Mate!
